Without question, the most powerful of all fantasies is the rape fantasy. It is a double edged sword. It can be very exciting, and it can be very dangerous. You must know your girlfriend’s past experiences and know for certain that you will not get an abreaction.
I know that at one time my girlfriend was the victim of attempted rape. Attempted because she kicked the shit out of the guy and broke his fuckin’ arm. She did not have any deep emotional trauma or anything from that, so I was not so concerned about her having an abreaction as I was concerned for my own life and limb. Therefore, she would have to be tied up. hehe That way, I would have a few seconds to wake her up if I had to.
I told my girlfriend “I have written an interesting script for you and tonight I am going to hypnotize you.” She said “Oh, what is it?” I said “You’ll find out.” “O000, OK!” In the living room I hypnotized her. While she was under, I said “You remember how much we enjoy it when I tie you up. On the count of 3 you will go into the bedroom and undress and wait for me on the bed, and then I will tie you up. l..2..3..” She got up and followed my commands.
In the bedroom, I tied her up, including blind folding her. Then I sent her back down into deep trance. I stood back a safe distance and then I described the reality: “Tonight, you are in a dark basement. You do not know where you are. It is pitch black, and you cannot see anything. A man you do not know has kidnapped you. You do not recognize this man. You do not recognize this voice. You cannot scream or fight, because you are afraid that he might hurt you. He is going to rape you. You don’t know why, but you find it strangely exciting. On the count of 3, you will be tied up in that basement, and you will be totally helpless. 1…. 2…. 3…. (snap)”
Instantly, her breathing got short and quick, but she otherwise remained motionless,. I slowly approached. She did not resist as I played my part. Suffice it to say that I was a very bad man with a very foul mouth. She did not have any abreaction, in fact, she started to really get into it. Eventually, she came VERY long and hard.
Then I sent her back down into deep trance and said “You are safe now. Tonight was just a fantasy. Tonight was just make believe. You are now safe with me here, in my bed. If at any time in the future, if you ever sense danger, you will think clearly and you will be able to act accordingly.” Then I took her all the way out of hypnosis.

We talked about it later. I asked her what it was like. She said “It was VERY exciting! It was a scary kind of exciting, which made it even more exciting. And it was… very… dirty. hehe” I said “Did you actually feel that you were in danger?” She said “If I had, believe me, I would have karate kicked your balls into next week.” (ouch) I said “How could you not feel in danger but still believe you were getting raped?” She said “Oh I definitely believed that I was getting raped, but something told me that it was OK. It was like I knew that inside there somewhere it was you.” Maybe that was her mind’s way of letting her have the fantasy. She continued “I could not have enjoyed it if I had actually felt in danger. If I had actually been raped in the past, I don’t think this would have been a very good experience. Also, if I did not trust you completely like I do, I don’t think this would have been a very good experience. But there was a moment or two when I did wonder if I was going to see a bad side of you that I never knew of, and that was kind of exciting. But I really did like how you were so dirty! Usually you talk naughty to me, which I love, but occasionally it is fun to be dirty.”
I asked her “What was your favorite fantasy? Was it the virgin, or the hooker, or the rape?” She said “Don’t make me choose. I liked them all. Sometimes I like to be innocent, sometimes I like to be naughty, and sometimes I like to be dirty. Which one did you like the best?” I said “I liked that one time when I taught you to…. COME like a GOOD GIRL!”

“Come then, Come then! Give me thy hand, oh fairest! Whisper a gentle ‘yes.’ With joy my life thou’lt bless. Come, dearest, let me guide thee. Danger shall ne’er come nigh thee.” Don Giovanni