Recently on Mindlist, a woman asked for information about hypnosis and if it could be used for sexual pleasure. Elroy Carter posted a reply, which is a brilliant pattern for explaining our favorite topic to a prospective subject. (You can read Elroy’s many posts about NLP on the Mindlist egroup at Yahoo.) The Elroy Induction is sensory rich with lots of embedded commands. I have reworked it somewhat, and I asked Elroy if I could copy it here.
(Apply embedded commands and pauses as necessary…) Hypnosis can be used in a number of ways to increase sexual pleasure.
First of all, hypnosis is a great way to relax. You can just turn off the busy chatter in your head, and ignore any external distractions. It can help you to shed any self consciousness, such that you can be your true self, allowing you to turn your awareness inside, and concentrate completely on your pleasure.
Hypnosis can be used to vividly relive the excitement of prior experiences of sexual desire, and amplify them. This happens a lot naturally, and hypnosis is just a way for you to do this deliberately. Sex is so much better when you are ‘in the mood’, and the stronger that mood becomes, the more pleasure you feel. When you can take your levels of desire and make them grow stronger, more real, you will find yourself experiencing even more pleasure than before.
Another way is to use hypnosis to heighten your senses, such as to increase the sensitivity of your skin. You may remember times when you had exquisitely heightened senses, where every touch seemed electric, where you could see the texture of your lover’s skin, be filled with your lover’s scent, and utterly luxuriate in their caress. Using hypnosis, these feelings get even stronger, and you greatly increase your own pleasure.
Yet another way is to generalize sexual pleasure. When you can take the specific pleasure that you feel, and let it begin to spread all throughout your body. And the more you relax, and surrender to the pleasure, giving yourself over to it completely, the more you begin to feel it consume your entire body, to where every nerve in your body is singing with delight.
Your pleasure may increase so much that the input of one sense transforms to become the input of another. You might see bright colors when you hear your lover’s voice. You may feel sensations when you smell your lover’s skin. It is a naturally occurring phenomenon when you can take sensations of pleasure and allow them to transform into colors, which can turn back into textures with flows and movements of their own. You can allow the sounds that you hear become feelings that resonate and pulse inside you, and back out to become colors that transform yet again. Actually, many women do this by themselves, without hypnosis training. In effect, you could say that they are hypnotizing themselves, by allowing themselves to focus so firmly and intensely on their own fantasies that they can literally feel the sensations that they are imagining, and the more they focus, the better it gets. Knowing what it’s like to have a powerful fantasy, and knowing of times thinking about something over and over again, the details and feelings grow more powerful with each pass.
“Be it real or feigned, her sleep tells the intelligent lover of an adored object that he is unworthy to enjoy her the moment he begins to wonder if he may or may not take advantage of it.” Giacomo Casanova