My good friend (who wishes only to be referred to as “J”) told me the following amazing story after reading my book:
Recently I had a one night sexual encounter with a woman, and we both understood the time limitations. I didn’t want to complicate the fleeting relationship with talk of trance, hypnosis, or a formal induction. Whilst she was highly aroused (and naturally tranced after having already orgasmed a couple of times) I told her to imagine a warm wet tongue on her clitoris, to let the sensations and her clitoris grow (it did) and flow through her body, for her body to BECOME her clitoris, and for her pleasure to flow back to the tongue sharing mutual enjoyment, and for her to enjoy her sensual generosity. I then said that we would count to 10 together (thus getting her commitment) and that at “10″ she would orgasm immediately, intensely, and that her orgasm would last as long as she wanted. Watching her getting more aroused and nearer to orgasm with each breath/count was fascinating, and fucking horny! It worked perfectly, and she came very hard and very long. She was amazed at her own sexual capabilities, and she made her gratitude obvious for the next couple of hours. Excellent. In that instance she WANTED to come. I guess her inhibitions (critical factor?) had been dismissed. Did she agree? Enthusiastic “Yes!” Physically and consciously involving her in the process by asking her to agree and to count with me was significant I suspect - agreement and commitment.
Thank you “J” for that wonderful story. I have field tested this, and it works great! I also did it after my girlfriend had come a couple times. We counted together, and I agree it is very exciting watching her get closer as each number passed, and then to actually watch her come on 10. Then, when we were “doing it” I told her that in 5 pumps she would come, and then I counted off the 5, and she did! I love it! Brilliant! I now do this ALL the time.

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