Within the pages of this chapter, I am going to describe to you the most ingenious, mischievous, devious idea I have ever heard. This was told to me some time ago by the ingenious man who created it, Mr. Mark Cunningham. By his permission, you shall now become privy to this idea.
One night when my girlfriend was over, and the evening’s activities moved into the bedroom, I instructed her to disrobe and lay on the bed. Then I tied her up, which I do on rare occasions for affect for specific purposes. After she had realized for a couple moments just how very helpless she was to me, I softly said to her, “You love to surrender yourself completely to me, don’t you Baby?” She said “Yes.” I said “And you do understand that your true fulfillment lay in your being completely responsive to me, isn’t that right Baby?” She said “Oh yes.” Then I began sucking her nipples, and continued until she had an orgasm.
After she rested, I softly said to her “You enjoy pleasing me by demonstrating to me how very responsive you are to me, isn’t that right Baby?” She softly said “Yes.” Then I said to her “You will now demonstrate to me just how responsive you are to me by showing me how good you can come when you count to 10. Now count to 10, and come very hard for me.” She slowly counted off, and right on 10 she had another orgasm.
I said “Oh Baby, that makes me feel so close to you. I love how you are so responsive to me” and I kissed her. Then I pulled back and said to her “Baby, remember when you have said to me how when you kiss me, it makes your clit hard?” She said “Oh yes.” I said “That is one thing I admire so much about you, is how you are such a sensual woman. That is very exciting. And one thing that is true for very sensual women is that they have very sensitive sensual lips. In fact, for a very sensual woman, all of her sensual areas are very interrelated and very responsive. For example, notice how when I softly touch your lips with my finger like this, your lips begin to become sensitive, and as they become sensitive, you can actually feel your clitoris become excited, because you are so very sensual, isn’t that right Baby?” She softly said “Yes.” I said “As I continue to lightly stroke your lips, your lips become even more sensitive. The more sensitive your lips become, the more you feel it in your clit. The more excited your clit becomes, the more sensitive your lips become.” I continued this loop, over and over, as I stroked her lips. I said “Oh yes Baby, feel it in your clit! Feel your clit getting more and more excited. Feel the sensation in your clit!” Then it happened, she had an orgasm.
Then I untied her and she wrapped her arms around me and held me tightly. Then I whispered into her ear, “I know how much pleasure you get from making my skin so very sensitive and so very excited, isn’t that right Baby?” She said “Oh yes.” I said “It will be extremely exciting for you to feel my skin become very sensitive and excited against your very sensitive sensual lips.” She said “Oh yes Baby.” I said “You know how much pleasure you give me when you suck me. As you feel my skin draw tight and become excited, your lips will become even more excited. And as you feel my pleasure increasing against your lips, you will feel your own pleasure increasing.” I slid up a little bit and then she slid down and took me into her mouth. I continued the suggestions, to the best of my distracted ability, “Feel my pleasure against your sensitive lips. Feel the pleasure in your lips increasing. Feel it in your clit! Feel it in your clit!” She went at it with a determination as if trying to make herself come, and then she did! She had an orgasm!
Later in the evening she told me “That was the most erotic sensual thing I have ever done.” Interestingly, she has since often insisted on doing it again.
The idea as first told to me by Mark was much more involved, far more powerful in terms of obtaining gleeful cooperation, and capable of quickly producing massive responsiveness. I understand that Mark has since further refined it with a reframe on “giving” that builds in a powerful propulsion mechanism. He teaches it, and many other Cool Advanced Techniques at his “Building a Better Lover” seminar. See store.yahoo.com/trucor for online products and seminar registrations.
I’ve been having all sorts of fun with this. Often. And then a few weeks later, on a Saturday night, my girlfriend and I made a date to go out to a very nice restaurant on the outskirts of town overlooking a lake. When I arrived at her house, we sat on the sofa and talked, as we usually do. Sometimes I hypnotize her before we go out. She is always more than happy, and never knows what to expect.
I put her in very deeply, and then said to her “Even as you are very relaxed, you can continue to breath normally, and as you remain completely relaxed, you can have an orgasm. Continue to breath normally and Come like a Good girl as you continue to remain completely relaxed.”
While she is having an extended relaxed orgasm under hypnosis, she has absolutely no recollection of what I say to her. I then addressed her subconscious mind. “I am now speaking to the subconscious mind. Subconscious mind, you and I have very deep rapport. Together, we make her feel wonderful pleasure. As she continues to enjoy that wonderful orgasm, please continue to keep her body very relaxed and continue to keep her breathing and heart rate normal. Subconscious mind, tonight, whenever I kiss her, she will be reminded of how sensitive and responsive her lips are to me. And as she remembers how sensitive and responsive her lips are to me, she will be reminded of just how much pleasure she derives from pleasing me with her very sensitive and responsive lips. Tonight, whenever I kiss her, she will instantly and powerfully be reminded of the pleasure she derives from pleasing me.” Then I thanked her subconscious mind, told her to stop having her orgasm, did some BaBGF stuff, and then took her back out.

She had a big smile. She somewhat remembered her orgasm, but had no idea what I said to her. I suggested we leave for the restaurant. Before we left through the front door, we hugged, and then I kissed her. She had a ‘naughty little girl’ smile on her face, and we went to my car to drive to the restaurant.

It was a very nice restaurant, and we had a wonderful dinner and close conversation. After dinner I suggested that we have a seat at the bar for a while where we could better hear the piano player. We sat closely together and enjoyed conversation. Then I said to her “Baby, I cannot keep my eyes off of your beautiful full lips. You do know how much I adore kissing you?” She leaned in and kissed me. Then she looked at me with a very mischievous smile. It appeared to be working. She said “Would you like to go now?” Yep, it was working.

When we got into my car, I looked at her, and then leaned over and kissed her. We began kissing passionately. Then I looked at her lips. She had a very longing look on her face. I said “Baby, I have been thinking so much about how wonderful your lips feel, how incredible your lips make me feel.” She just continued to look longingly, but did not take any initiative. I looked around the parking lot, hoping she would take the hint. She looked around and said “Somebody will see us.” I said “No, nobody will see us, it is dark, and I will tell you if someone is coming.” (The bad NLP was on purpose, to give it the sense of danger.) She took the hint and proceeded to again enjoy her new way of enjoying an orgasm.

“If you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.” Henry Ford