Since learning hypnosis, I started to look at Tantra as a bunch of mumbo jumbo that basically serves to perform mutual self induction. Now, with the power of hypnosis, I could get straight to the core.
I was also perplexed by the idea that in Tantra someone can have an orgasm and not ‘come.’ I always thought that to have an orgasm was to come. In Tantra, the goal is to have an extended orgasm while there is no need to come. I wondered “Where’s the fun in that?”
I talked about Tantra with my girlfriend, and she was eager to learn more and try it. After we returned to her home after dinner on a Saturday night, I took out a Tantra book that I had and began to read to her. We concluded that Tantra required three things:
1. Allow the sexual pleasure to travel from the genitals, up through the torso, and into thehead.
2. Allow the sexual pleasure to fill the entire body while at the same time allowing the entire body to remain completely relaxed.
3. Maintain the ecstasy indefinitely.
Step 2 was the paradox, the hard part. I knew that with hypnosis I could make part 1 true for her. I was not sure that I could make part 2 true for her. I had no prediction for part 3. I would be happy to make parts 1 and 2 true for her in the first session. I had no idea if she would actually ‘come.’
She was ready to try it, so we went upstairs. I had her lie on her back with her legs slightly separated. I hypnotized her and sent her deep into trance. I then gently massaged her deep spot as I told her: “Feel the pleasure travel up your chest and into your head. Let it completely fill your mind. Let the pleasure fill your entire body, and as it does, it completely relaxes your body. As your body is consumed by pleasure, it only serves to relax your entire body even more.”
Almost immediately her vagina was contracting. She was in what they call an ‘orgasmic’ state. She started to very slightly moan, so I insisted that she relax. She became completely quiet and still.
I continued to talk to her while I continued to gently massage her deep spot. Her vagina continued to gently contract, but her vagina never did go into the powerful contractions synonymous with ‘coming.’ She remained absolutely motionless and quiet.
This went on for some time. I had certainly massaged her long enough to make her come a few times, but it had never happened.