There is a place of transition, right between being really close, and actually coming, when a woman feels completely open and vulnerable. Normally it is so brief as to not be noticed, but it becomes apparent when you bring her up very… very… slowly…
On a number of occasions I have extended that place of transition for my girlfriend by bringing her up very slowly using the welcomed method with slow light stimulation. That place of transition tends to last a bit longer, like maybe a couple of seconds. But I was able to extend it indefinitely by specifically telling her that when she gets very close, she will stay there for as long as I say. I brought her up very slowly while reminding her that she cannot come. After she had been close for a very long time, I reminded her to relax and that she cannot come. She began to slip into that place of transition. As she began to feel completely open and vulnerable, I said to her “Feel completely vulnerable. Whenever I say feel completely vulnerable, you will immediately return to this place of feeling completely vulnerable.” I held her there for many minutes. She was truly feeling completely open and vulnerable. She said “David, I would do anything for you.” I held her there for as long as I desired, and then I said “Now, Darling, give me your orgasm.” She slipped over the edge and had a massive orgasm. Now, at any time, I can immediately return her to that place, by simply saying to her “Feel completely vulnerable.”

My girlfriend was going to attend a meeting for her work in my town, so it was another opportunity for us to be together on a weeknight at my place the night before. We were enjoying conversation on the couch, when I stood up and said “Go into the bedroom, undress, and lay on the bed.” She did so. After giving her sufficient time, and a little more, I went into the bedroom and enjoyed the view of her on my bed. She said “What is it?” I said “I adore looking at you. You look so beautiful to me.” She smiled. I went to my wardrobe and I obtained two silk ties and I tied her wrists to the bed posts. I stood back and looked at her and said “You look helpless.” She shyly smiled and said “Yes.” I said “In fact, you appear to be completely vulnerable.” She looked longingly at me and softly said “Yes.” I removed my belt and lightly dangled it above her body. Then I let the tip of the leather lightly touch her skin. She shivered.

I set the belt down on the bed and I sat down next to her. I looked into her eyes and said “Darling, as you remember, whenever I kiss you, your clit becomes very hard and excited, isn’t that right?” She smiled and said “Yes.” I said “In fact, it is also true, that when I kiss you, your nipples become very hard and excited, just like this” and I began to suck her nipple. She immediately began to moan. I sucked her nipple until she was very close, and then I stopped. I stood up and said “That is how good your nipple feels when I kiss you.” She slightly turned towards me and softly said “Yes.” I walked around to the other side of the bed and placed my face close to hers and said “Darling, whenever I kiss you, your nipples instantly become extremely hard and excited, just like this” and I sucked her other nipple. I nibbled and tugged and sucked her nipple until she became very close, and then I stopped. She breathlessly said “Oh God.”

I walked to the foot of the bed and said “I am now going to remind you how hard and excited your clit gets when I kiss you. Spread your legs.” She did so, and then I crawled onto the bed and began to very slowly and lightly lick her clit. I brought her up very slowly until she was very close, and then I stopped. She was gasping for air, and for the orgasm I was not letting her have. But sure enough, she was feeling completely open and vulnerable.

I obtained the Astroglide and then sat next to her. I lubed up my fingers and began doing the Welcomed method on her very slowly and very softly. She soon became very close again, but I slowed and lightened up even more to hold her orgasm away. Then I stopped and said “This is how good your clit feels every time I kiss you.” She just gritted her teeth. I waited a few moments and then began touching her again, and again making it even slower and softer as she got closer. I said “This is how excited your clit gets every time I kiss you.” With feather light touches I kept her right on the edge. I said “Every time I kiss you your clit feels this fucking good.” Then I stopped.

I stood up and wiped my hands off on a small towel. She said “David, I cannot put my legs together. My clit is so hard that I can’t put my legs together.” I simply said “I know. Turn to the side.” She put her legs together and she turned as much of her body to the side as she could, as her arms were still held wide apart.

I picked up the belt and said “Right now, you are feeling very naughty. In fact, you are being a very bad girl. You need to be disciplined.” She began to breathe quickly. I held the buckle of my belt with one hand, the middle of the belt with the other, and then I slapped the free end of the belt against her ass. She flinched. I slapped her again and it made a loud snap. She gasped. I repeatedly slapped her ass, one side and then the other, being careful not to hurt her or make any marks, while saying “You have been a very bad girl, and Daddy is disciplining you.” She was going nuts. Just as she got very close, I stopped. She quivered and said “Oh God David.”

I stood back and looked upon her for a while as she caught her breath. When she then looked up at me, I said “Roll back onto your back and open your legs.” She did, and I sat next to her and said “I am now going to remind you how good your pussy feels when I kiss you” and I slowly slid my finger into her vagina. She closed her eyes and rolled her head back. I softly pressed against her deep spot, but I had to be careful not to make her come, as she was already so close. I said “This is how good your pussy is going to feel whenever I kiss you.” She tightly closed her eyes and brought her head forward, trying hard for her orgasm, which I was not going to let her have. I held my finger still, and she gave up trying, knowing that I was not going to let her have it, and she took the opportunity to gather some air. I had to very carefully remove my finger as that stimulation alone could have been enough to make her come. She was that close.

I let my finger slide down to her anus and I said “In fact, whenever I kiss you, you will find that your ass becomes very excited.” I gently slid my finger in while saying “Every time I kiss you, your ass will become extremely excited.” Once in, I slowly slid my finger in and out, slower, and then just keeping it still. She wanted to come so badly that she began to ride my finger. I said “This is how excited your ass will become every time I kiss you, isn’t that right?” She said “YES!” I said “In fact, your ass will become so excited that it will want to ride my cock, isn’t that right?” She said “Oh God Yes.” Just as she got very close, I slowly withdrew. She curled up and shivered and said “Oh God David.”

I then undressed as I said to her “You do recall how very excited your lips feel when you feel my pleasure against your lips, don’t you?” She said “Yes.” I said “I am now going to remind you how excited your lips become every time you kiss me.” I positioned myself above her face and said “Every time I kiss you, your lips are going to feel as excited as when you SUCK MY COCK!” She started sucking as if she wanted to come so badly. I said “Yes, this is how fucking good your lips feel every time I kiss you.” Just as she got really close, I withdrew.

I stood up next to the bed and looked down at her. I wanted to take some time before the grand finale so she could slip a bit farther away from her elusive orgasm. I said to her “Every time you kiss me, you will crave me.” She longingly said “Oh Yes.” I said “You feel completely vulnerable to me right now, don’t you?” “Yes.” “You love it when you surrender yourself completely to me, don’t you?” “Yes.” “You do understand that I could make you come instantly by simply saying five words to you, don’t you?” “Yes.” “You do understand that I am in complete control of your entire body.” “Yes.” “You do understand that I am in complete control of every pleasure that you feel, isn’t that right?” “Yes.”

The suggestions were more than sufficiently planted, and it was time to reward her good behavior. I got on the bed and placed my knees between hers and my hands on either side of her chest and said “In fact, whenever you kiss me, you will crave to feel my cock in your pussy. I know how much your pussy aches to feel me enter you.” She gasped “Oh David.” I let just the tip of my cock slide in, and I held still. I said “This is how badly your pussy aches for my cock.” I slowly slid the tip in and out, just titillating her pussy. She was loosing her mind. I said “Now Baby, I want you to show me how excited you get when you kiss me. Show me how excited that makes you.” “Yes David.” “Right now you feel completely vulnerable to me, don’t you?” “Yes David.” “Right now you would do anything for me, wouldn’t you?” “Oh God Yes David.” As I continued to titillate her pussy with the tip of my cock, I said “What I want you to do is, I want you to show me how good you can come for me Baby.” She was trying very hard with the limited stimulation I was giving her. I said “Give me your orgasm Baby.” She became very stiff and she went over the edge and began her orgasm. When she was coming, I began pumping her hard and deep and fast. She started coming so hard that she started an ear piercing scream. Fearing that the neighbors would file another noise complaint against me with the apartment complex management, I firmly placed my hand over her open mouth while being careful to leave her nostrils clear. I continued pumping her hard and saying “Come like a good girl. Hard! Show me how fucking hard you come for me. Come Hard Baby. Hard!” while she screamed silently into my palm. This lasted for almost a minute.

When she was done, I untied her hands, and she wrapped her arms tightly around me. We held each other for a while. It was time for me to give her the reward that she cherishes the most. I said to her “Darling, you please me greatly. I want to show you how much pleasure you give me” and I started making love to her with long slow strokes as I said to her what I knew would make her crazy “Baby, you make me feel so good. Baby, make my cum come out of me.” I normally don’t bring my own pleasure to a woman’s attention, as it tends to distract her from her orgasm, but in this particular instance, she was so aroused and so ready to come again, that doing so would actually increase her pleasure. She was keeping up with me. She can also feel my energy when I get really close, especially when we are face to face, and it is enough to make her come. I said “Baby, take my cum. Baby, take my orgasm, take my orgasm and make it yours.” As she felt my energy, we shared an orgasm together. Fortunately she was much quieter this time.

As we were falling asleep, she said “David, I am so wildly crazy about you. I am so madly in love with you.”
In the morning I woke up to see her putting on her blue pinstripe skirted suit for work. She said “Good morning Honey. I have to go to work now, this is a very important meeting.” I followed her to the door where she threw her overnight bag over her shoulder. She turned to me and said “Last night was so exciting Baby” and then she kissed me. Instantly she melted and fell against me. I caught her and stood her back up straight. She said “Oh my God! I just instantly got SO horny! Damn, I wish I didn’t have to go.” The suggestions appeared to have worked.

That night she called me and said “I thought about you all day long. You evoke such powerful emotions in me. You touch parts of me that nobody has been able to touch. You touch me in ways I have always wanted to be touched. The way you touched me was so powerful, so beautiful. It’s what life is all about. I feel so alive.”

This is so powerful.

On later occasions, I would again bring her up very slowly, but when I got to the licking of the clit part, I would make my licking even lighter and slower, bringing her right to the very edge. Then with the very slightest touch with the tip of my tongue on the tip of her clit, I would continue to hold her right on the very edge, for a very… very… long time. She would be fucking loosing it. Eventually, with just the very slightest of touch, she would finally go over the edge. While I maintained the very slightest of touch, she would have a spectacular orgasm. Awesome.

Soon after that, I received a thirty day notice of eviction due to all the noise complaints. So I signed a lease with a new complex down the street. I was furious at the time, but it’s funny now when I look back on it. Sort of like a badge of honor.

“If control was out of my hands, I, in turn, was allowed to be out of control.” Elizabeth McNeill