Now you get to switch roles. Your partner stays still and you move, using stopstart. Because vajra’s corona and frenulum are very sensitive, some find the least stimulating place to stop is pressing into the yoni as deeply as possible. Some find the opposite true. Test it out and learn what works best for you. As you begin developing your skill, you may need to withdraw vajra partly or completely to manage your arousal level. You can even switch to pleasuring your partner with your fingers or mouth during short breaks as you recover. You’ve obviously perfected your signals and communication skills by this point. Just a reminder, during this drill don’t stop moving inside without explanation. Of course, some day you may discover that you’re totally in sync with each other, telepathically knowing exactly what’s going on inside your partner. Until you reach that mystical arena, keep communicating. Otherwise you can create mutual tension which we all know contributes to involuntary squirting.

1) Lay on your back with your partner straddling you. Or if you find you can regulate your movements easier from above, get on top of your partner.
2) Ask if she is ready for vajra and guide him to slowly penetrate yoni. When vajra is completely inserted, remain still, simply feeling the sensations until your excitement begins to lessen.
3) Ask your partner to remain still while you begin moving.
4) Keep communicating openly and frequently about what’s going on inside you.
5) When you peak at 6, signal your partner and stop moving completely. Take a deep breath, hold it, and queeze your PC muscle until you drop down a couple levels. Old hat, right?
6) Repeat peaking at 6 five more times using stop-starts.
7) In the same way, peak at 8 and 9 six times each. Repeat this practice as many times as you need until you can last for 30 minutes without losing it.

Exercise: Both Moving Stop-Start VIY You’ve got more to practice to completely master the Ultimate Ecstatic
Solution. But you’ve come (not cum) so far! Now you get to experience both you and your partner moving while making love. I probably don’t have to mention it, but let me remind you that letting go with wild abandon may still cause a quick explosive orgasm. This exercise is still a slow, sensuous, measured climb up the arousal scale. OK, now that I’ve preached a bit, I’ll let you in on a secret. Tantric adepts are known far and wide for their ability to please women.

These” experts” make love in a manner that closely resembles how this exercise unfolds. They don’t pump strenuously and continuously until their partner cums. Instead, they tease, tickle, and tantalize for the longest time. Instead of succumbing to the urge to cum that still makes an unexpected occurrence, they dance with their own energy and the rising tide of ecstasy in their partner. They’re not rushing headlong towards the goal of the Big O. No, they’re savoring every little sensation themselves and milking the interplay for all the pleasure it’s worth.

You’re learning how to do that very thing. Don’t blow it now. Just keep floating in that endless sea of orgasmic energy without consciously causing the explosion. Sometimes it will visit unannounced of its own accord. When it does, surrender and let it sweep both of you away together.

1) Lay on your back with your partner straddling you.
2) Ask if she is ready for vajra and guide him to slowly penetrate yoni. When vajra is completely inserted, remain still, simply feeling the sensations until your excitement begins to lessen.
3) Ask your partner to move slowly while you move as well.
4) Both of you should keep communicating openly and frequently about what’s going on inside each of you.
5) When you peak at 6, signal your partner and both stop moving completely. Take a deep breath, hold it, and squeeze your PC muscle until you drop down a couple levels.
6) Repeat peaking at 6 five more times using stop-starts.
7) In the same way, peak at 8 and 9 six times each. Repeat this practice as many times as you need until you can last for 30 minutes without squirting.