How do you reach such mind-boggling heights? Simple, by generating and channeling orgasmic energy. The biological forces of sex certainly produce lots of energy in your genitals, especially when you’re young and healthy. But what happens when you age or get stressed by sickness or life pressures? Then you can’t depend on hormones to turn you on and make you high. You have to master running energy. Sexual Breathing Is The Key Sexual breathing is the key to running orgasmic energy. Relaxing, breathing, moving, making sounds, and focusing the mind are its essential tools. That’s partly why I’ve been including breathing exercises at each stage of the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution. Like any new skill, you need to practice regularly to integrate this vital method.

That reminds me of an early session I attended at Margot’s yearlong Love and Ecstasy Training. She was presenting some sexual practice in her frank and flamboyant style. As she graphically described how to channel energy, all of the assistant instructors, sitting cross-legged on either side of her, started vibrating with blissful expressions on their faces. All she had to do was focus their minds on orgasmic energy and they started streaming those great juices up and down their bodies. At the time, this was highly frustrating to me. I was in the midst of weeks of practice before having my first inkling of what they could turn on and off at will. But it sure served as a strong motivator of what was possible. Where do you channel the energy you learn to generate through sexual breathing?

Why, up your inner flute, my dear. You may have an overwhelming abundance of energetic juice in your first chakra, your sex center at the base of your spine. You know what happens if you let it simmer and boil. Right, it explodes out the end of vajra taking gobs of cum with it. Instead, move the energy up to the belly, the solar plexus, the heart, the brain, and above. Then it excites, enlivens, and enriches your whole body. Remember my dear friend, Doc Steven, who never chooses explosive orgasms while having multiple inner ones? When I asked him why he never cums, he said “I just love women so much. When I’m making love, I simply move that juicy orgasmic energy up to my heart. It makes me so high engulfing me in love. I never want to ejaculate so I can go on merging with Shakti like that forever.” And he really does.