Rhythmic wavelike soft-muscle contractions propel the semen down your urethra and out the head of your penis where those little swimmers have a brief fight for survival and usually lose. These contractions of your pelvic muscles that cause the actual release of semen are also the main ones that cause the fantastic pleasure. Now here’s the good news: by strengthening those muscles and heightening your sensitivity of this whole process, you can avoid the emission phase altogether and still enjoy the wonderful ecstasy of the expulsion spasms without the squirting. When I do this, my vajra gets desensitized briefly so I can pump vigorously again for a while before repeating the whole cycle as many times as I want. Amongst we sex professionals, our technical term for this is dry orgasm. Just kidding, I really don’t know what doctors call it. Did you ever experience one?

I actually had a few dry orgasms some years ago before I knew what was happening. Later, when I was learning Orgasm Mastery, the guy in the next room bragged he had 60 dry cums in the first three days of our week-long course. Yes, I hated him at the time. And I wanted to nail his girlfriend too, but how could I with such a stud in the saddle first? Now I love him because he challenged me to learn the same thing. And you can too. By the way, thanks, Marco. OK, that’s the end of the anatomy lesson. But there’s another even better way to describe what cuming is all about from a Tantric perspective. You build up sexual tension through more and more arousal until you seemingly have no other option but to release the sexual energy through ejaculating. In fact, the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to mastering dry orgasms and unlimited stamina is recirculating the energy within your body. If you can spread the excitement all over, not only does it feel great, but the urge to squirt subsides. This is the real power and requires using Tantric practice which we’ll get to shortly.